Duration
90-120 minutes
Language of Delivery
Cantonese, English or Mandarin
Introduction
Many leaders and managers hesitate to give negative feedback, or struggle to deliver it in a way that leads to positive change. This seminar explores the psychology behind giving and receiving negative feedback, providing techniques for effective delivery and strategies to ensure it is well-received and acted upon.

Course Details
Objectives
- Understand why we often hesitate to give negative feedback, its importance, and its impact.
- Learn the key characteristics of effective negative feedback and ‘actionable feedback’ conversations.
- Understand the important factors to consider in timing the delivery of feedback, and why.
- Recognize the impact of timing on negative feedback delivery and identify key points for effective delivery and follow-up.
Methodology
- Psychological Exploration: Delving into the psychological reasons behind resistance to feedback and the impact of motivation, fear, and desire.
- Framework Development: Establishing key characteristics of actionable feedback and exploring solutions to remove obstacles to willingness to change.
- Practical Strategies: Providing specific strategies for logistics, speaking tips, and delivering effective feedback conversations.
- Interactive Exercises: (In longer versions) Engaging participants in exercises to solidify learning.
Key Takeaways
- An understanding of the psychological factors influencing the delivery and reception of negative feedback.
- Practical strategies for overcoming resistance and fostering willingness to change.
- Techniques for crafting actionable feedback that leads to improved performance.
- Insights into the importance of timing and effective delivery in feedback conversations.
- Concrete steps for structuring and facilitating impactful feedback sessions.
Agenda
- Understanding Resistance
- The 3 psychological reasons why people resist feedback
- Taking it personally, disagreeing with the feedback, and not knowing how to improve
- The 3 psychological reasons why people resist feedback
- Foundational Keys to Change:
- The 2 foundational keys to change in human behavior: Willingness and Ability, and how these map to the 3 reasons above.
- Removing Obstacles to Willingness:
- The 4 Solutions to remove obstacles to Willingness.
- The basic human makeup of Motivation, Fear, and Desire and the impact of Cause and Effect.
- Effective Delivery:
- Mock feedback conversation.
- The 8 factors needed to enable the Ability to change behavior.
- Strategy for logistics & speaking tips for an effective feedback conversation.
- (Optional) Practical Exercises
- Participant Exercise (included in longer versions).
Target Participants
- Leaders and Managers (0-8 years experience).
- Individuals seeking to improve their feedback delivery skills.